It has been five months since I said NO MORE....No more control....belittling.....disregard.....manipulation.....
The interesting thing is that he has sent me several cards and I burn them...b/c of what I have learned since breaking it off from him.
First, I have a beautiful new found sense of freedom in just being me....I no longer question what I am wearing....or need to be home by 10:30.....no more interrogations of where I was and were there any men at the seminar....or messages of how he was wondering if I was socializing with people HE didn't know......all sounds so very bizarre to me now....I was being brain washed and did not even recognize it!
Also...I have learned alot about these kind of men....their deep insecurities cause them to constantly be on the look out for other woman to fulfill their void of self esteem and to satisfy their narcissism. This is what I witnessed with ...we'll call him Dan! I have taken time to observe men and their patterns with this issue. Men will glance and that is to be expected but cheaters stare.
I realize that one should trust their intuition on this topic...ladies....Trust your instinct! When you see patterns of anger, quick attachment, marriage discussion within 3/4 months(I am serious!!!)
RUN.................................RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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