Wow.........I enjoyed being me tonight....Just spending time with friends...my dear friend Dyan! She has remained as strong as possible and continues to put her best foot forward in the midst of adversity. I have to hand it to her ex-husband who is taking care of her. He has been there for her...He is not perfect ...Yet he remains present in the midst of the storm of cancer.
This is more that I can say for D.S.! He could not take the time to be present with his wife in her most difficult times but her mom...Mimi.....stood in his place. The construction of his building and business ordeals were more important. This was a huge deciding point for me in choosing to end the relationship with the Narcissistic hot tub man...
He had some issues that speak volumes that will be discussed at a later blog:
Sexual addiction website ....herpes outbreak that was a gross siting...evidence of contacting other woman....anonymous phone call from a female regarding him......asking me about cognitive dissonance....canker sores.............his vacillating moods.....his computer showing porn activity...............his preoccupation with asking me if I was remorseful....rage over the fact that I dated an African American.........Very condescending and judgemental......Accusatory of me regarding my past ...which I was a predefining naive and dedicated single mom who rarely went out!! he was the one running around ...business trips...drinking....trade shows....Vegas....."business".
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