I spent the day at church and then to a social celebrating a cancer free life of my dear friend Dyan.....It was very interesting as I mingled among the guests. One woman...forty six....was completely devastated with her life. Her husband of 26 years seems to be passive-aggressive and disregarding of her needs. She tries and talks to him and engage him ...but it seems to be a dead end. Hmmm......It was a reminder to me ...This is how I was feeling the past year and half......with the narcissist I was engaged to ..We will call him D.S.! He started out being so charming..quickly in love with me..."the woman of his dreams" ...he would tell me! However, as I became HIS.....All the charm formulated into control, jealousy, insecurity, rage, out of control anger, belittling, disregard....It was always about him and his daughters...Never my sons.....
Thank you God...as I listened to this woman's pain today...I am blessed with health, freedom, regard for my own well being.....no more abuse!!!!
Warning...anyone who can quickly attach to you ....probably just detached from someone else ..dropped them like a hot potato....for YOU!!! Remember...True...healthy love....takes time to have knowledge of one another! If it is so hurried...It is to fill their void...Narcissist are NOT capable of love!
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