Signs of Abusive Relationships.......

Domestic Violence with in families can be very difficult to discern.....Here are some signs:
Children...whether adults of younger can appear austere and not very attached to the abuser(ie father)
Anger ...and little display of affections towards the parent (father) is usually limited and strained

Evidence of dating an abuser may include the diagnosis of Borderline Personality Disorder with Narcissism:
Symptoms are as follows:

1. Quick attachment
2. Intense desire to quickly marry in order to isolate the victim in "his" reign
3. Showers of accolades of positive compliments initially in order to pull you into their manipulation
4. Assurance of security financially ...emotionally...and "you are the woman of their dreams"
5. Generosity of spending with thoughtful ..gifts and promises to capture your heart
6. If you are starting to think he is too good to be true...Trust your intuition!!!
7. Engagements...or attempts to seal the deal with you is imperative!   Engagement is "his" plan and needed for his deep seated insecurities of potentially loss of you
8. Episodes of anger ..."flashing" may start to seep out in which he rages on you and spews bile of criticism
9. Irritability and disdain will begin to evolve intermittent between kindness and apology
10................Trust your gut!!! It has been telling you that something is awry......Possessiveness and jealousy has been a manipulation in which you may have not realized....calling you at the same time every night....asking you where you were and who you saw and where their men there????
11. Anger....and more frequent outbursts...become the norm...This is a huge RED flag!!!!
12. You are beginning to feel isolated as he spends 5 out of 7 nights with  you and has made negative comments about your associates, friends, social events....
13. Your style of clothing that he LOVED for one year is "provoking men to stumble" now....He flips out if men look at you or....you smile or talk to strangers who are male(in the grocery line)
14. Financially these men are out of control spenders in which if they have a business....They are completely maxed out in debt!!!  They need your equity of your home or assets in order to survive.....

ALL of the above are some examples of Control...Manipulation...Possessiveness...that is unhealthy and could lead to much worse symptoms if you were married..........................

RUN>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

I did................I broke off a almost three year relationship with a Borderline....I got a warning from a his family member...Thank YOU!!...You know who you are....I am eternally grateful for you telling me
the truth....You spared me a miserable life with this "christian" man..

A Woman's Place located in Doylestown, Pa is a very informative, helpful....

Thank You Lord for protecting me from what I couldn't see at first.....